How to win friends and influence people
1# Become genuinely interested in other people
This means that if you become interesting to other people they like you. If you are a good person and you don't criticize others people will like you. It is important for people to like you because then if you have so much people hating on you that would be bad. This is why you have to respect others so that they can respect you as well. Kindness is something we all have to have because then we would live in a world with bad people.Plus when you talk you want people to listen to you, so why not do it to others. For example with a teacher, sometimes you have an issue and you want to talk about it to your teacher. They’ll be there to listen, so when they are teaching in class you should be there or listen to.
2#Smile
"Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, "I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."
"You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."
When you smile that would make you more approachable and people might like you. smiling is a good way to make friends because nobody really wants to hang out with a person who is always mean or has a mean face. Smiling can break the ice because it’s like a friendly invite. Some people don’t come up to other people because their serious face looks like a mean face. They believe they are just mean because they aren’t smiling; although that’s a dumb reason to not talk to someone a lot of people think like that. A smile is like a warm welcome but you have to smile genuinely.
3#: Remember names
"A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
"If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."
If you don't remember someones name then that would be very rude and they might not like you after that. you have to remember peoples names because that is more polite and better for a friendship. Such as when yo meet someone new try not to forget their names because it’s kind of rude. Not only is it awkward when you ask them again what their name is but it kinda starts the friendship of bad. People are most likely impressed when you remember their names after only meeting them once and that makes them like you more.
4# Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
" If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems.
Rule number 4 is to be a good listener. when you are a good listener your peers might like that about you and might want to talk to you a bit more. people would really enjoy your presence and people would like to talk to you.
5# Talk in terms of the other man's interest.
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."
rule number 5 is to talk in terms of the other mans interest. you would have to talk about what they enjoy and what they treasure most in life.When you talk about what they enjoy in life then they would become more fond of you and you guys would have a tighter bond. When you know what they treasure most in life Its a good way to communicate and to hold a conversation
6# Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.
"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
rule number 6 is to make people feel important. you have to make people feel important because it would make them like you for your being kind. make someone feel important and make sure you let the person know they have a special place on this earth. when you make someone feel important they will know they you are a kind and sweet person so they would really enjoy your presence and admire you. when you make someone feel important is a good thing because when you do that they would make them happy and joyful. You can make someones day just by telling them they are important. tell someone how important they are.
